May 23, 2019 Last Updated 12:00 AM, Nov 30, 2019

Loss and Change

{jcomments off}Dear Astrology Room

I've recently gone through a period of great loss and change. As much as I try to look up and look forward, sometimes I feel very alone. But I've got a new job, new routines and am hoping I am now on the right path as well. I was born Feb. 8th 1953, at an unknown time and would appreciate any insight you can share.


Dear Kathy

I admire your positive attitude to your life after your recent losses. You're obviously very strong about life, and everyone born in your generation has a strong sense of self-survival and preservation in the hardest of personal times, (called the Pluto in Leo generation). It is also keeping you focussed and aware.

Yes, we all need 'something' outside of ourselves to come and sweep us off our feet - either via love, career or a spiritual passion. And we all look to the future in the hope that something 'amazing' is just round the corner. Astrology can tell us whether this is possible and I think you have asked the question at the right moment. This is a time when somehow, intuitively or through some other strange twist of 'fate', the moment you have chosen to ask this question, is going to change your life. You're an Aquarius with no time for birth, but that doesn't mean you have no time like now to get out there and make your destiny all your own. Saturn is currently aligned to give you the chance to look at the 'loneliness' you experience from a new perspective. Perhaps you can tweak that aloneness to a far better experience, that of solitude? A welcome solitude - a respite in the wave of the ageless and often misconstrued belief that love and life 'rocks when we are in relationship' - and you at last realise that being alone isn't necessarily the end of everything. Sometimes, being alone brings us to a realization that we are also never alone with ourselves - oneself is one's biggest friend. Meanwhile, astrologically, in the months to come, new love, warmth, career, passion, self-worth and so on, will begin to seed new life into you.  So this aloneness is just the beginning of your new togetherness - either with someone special, or maybe even with something you have never experienced before. Don't fear your solitude, embrace it, for it will lead you to greater things.

With best wishes


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